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Are you ready to meet the person of your dreams? Are you ready to become maximally attractive to the very kind of person who attracts you the most?
Let's get right to the point. You may want to read this book because
you're sick and tired of dating people for too long with nothing coming of
it. Perhaps you keep discovering that the people you date are just not right for you-- but you waste too much time figuring it out.
The fact is that
you could have known this before the end of two dates. The secret is to learn how to identify dead-end relationships quickly so you don't have to invest more time, energy, and caring that are necessary-- and so you can move on to more promising possibilities.
Here is a second reason you may want to
read this book: dating efficiency is a function of clear
thinking; you become more and more "dating
proficient" as you learn to think clearly about yourself
and the person you want to marry. If your fuzzy about the
qualities you must have been a lifelong mate, or if your
unsure about the qualities you can't stand, you're efficiency
level is bound to be lower than you like. This book deals
directly with your "must-have" and "
can't-stand" lists, and when you finish building these
lists to your full satisfaction, you will have become a
veritable expert on the art of dating.
And third, I promise when you have read through this book-- and implemented the strategies recommended
you will be significantly more attractive to the person you want to marry. If that isn't the reason to read this book, I don't know what is!
This is how it works. Once you get to know yourself well, and once you figure out exactly the kind of person you want to marry, you are much more likely to know this person when he or she comes along. You will be able to pick the person out of crowd. If there's anything better than that, it's being picked out of the crowd by the love of your life. When you get treated wonderfully by someone who thinks you are the very person they've been looking for, you are bound to find that person far more attractive than you ever found anyone before. The fact is, all of us are dying to feel good about ourselves, and when we feel especially good about a certain person, we will be amazed at how important and attractive that person becomes for us-- and vice versa.
So here, in snapshot form, are the three reasons you may want to read this book:
1. You want to leave behind a miserable, time-consuming, go nowhere dating process.
2. You want to know exactly what you are doing when you date, exactly the kind person you want to marry, and exactly
how to get the best results from the dating process.
3. You want to be maximally attractive to the very person
who attract you most.
Two inevitable results of this kind of dating.
First, wise dating would increase the percentage of successful marriages and, naturally,
reduce the number of failures. A huge number of all marriage failures could be avoided if people were taught to deal with their relational difficulties early in the dating process. Why? Because
too many couples continue going with each other long after it is obvious that their relationship has major defects. The longer they date, the harder is to go their separate
ways. A shockingly large number of couples never muster the courage to breakup, and they end up getting married. These marriages are doomed from the beginning.
Second, you can become a part of a revolution in the world of relationships. If it is true that failed marriages and family breakdown are significant causes of the social chaos, violence, and turmoil around world (and there is overwhelming research to support this claim), then let's begin doing something about it.
If you follow the principles for marrying the right person, you will be successful at the most important part of human living. Moreover, you will become so confident about your expertise you will share it with your friends, family members, and anyone who listen. If we can reduce the divorce rate in the United States by just five percent, this will affect more than one million people in a generation (not to mention the millions in the following generations). Even more exciting, if we can reduce the divorce rate in our country to single digits, they will represent the most important social revolution in the history of the world.
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(Excerpt reprinted by permission Thomas Nelson Publisers)
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by Neil Clark Warren
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