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Different personalities prefer different types of
romance. What happens is that we expect our mate to love
and be loved the way we feel loved. So what is romantic
to us is supposed to be romantic to them, right? Wrong!
Many personality tests exist that
describe four personality types. We've laid out what
expresses love to each of the personality types. Take
this RQ (Romantic Quotient) test. This is an open book
exam! See if you can pick yourself out-and see if you
can discern which type of lover you are married too.
Type 1 Lover.
Knight in Shining Armor, Queen of hearts.
Examples: Lancelot, James
Bond, Robin Hood, Crocodile
Dundee, Joan of Arc, and Lois Lane
Characteristics:
| ·
Dominant |
· Task-Oriented |
| ·
Extroverted |
· Loves New
Experiences |
| · Controling |
· Focused |
| · Active |
·
Cooperative |
| ·
Conquering |
· Makes a
decision & gets on with it |
Preferences in Romance:
| · Adventurous
Activity |
· Club
Med |
| · No guided
tour |
· Hiking |
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Anything they decide is a good
idea |
(Personality Type: Choleric; Dominant; Lion)
Type
2 Lover. The
Hopeless Romantic
Examples: Anne of Avonlea, Cupid
Characteristics:
| · People -
oriented |
·
Extroverted |
| · Is the
center of attention |
· Loves to be
with lots of people |
| · Enjoys new
experiences |
· Fun |
| · Unique |
· Exotic |
| · Daring |
· Looks for
new adventures |
| · Active |
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Preferences in Romance:
| · Anything
New |
·
Entertainment that is personal and touches the
heart |
| · Adventurous
outings |
· Human Drama
(plays, musicals, concerts, sports) |
| · Exotic
Getaways |
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(Personality
Type: Sanguine; Inspirational; Otter)
Type 3 Lover. Wind
Beneath My Wings
Examples:
Superman, Robert and
Elizabeth Browning
Characteristics:
| ·
People-oriented |
·
Introverted |
| · Relaxed |
· Easy going |
| · Takes it as
it comes |
· Stress free |
| · Has time to
talk |
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Preferences in Romance:
| · Light
schedule |
· Simple
activities |
| · Time to
relax |
· Escape from
reality flexible |
| ·
Entertainment with time to enjoy it |
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(Personality Type: Phlegmatic;
Steady; Retriever)

Type
4 Lover. True Blue Lover
Examples:
Jane Eyre, Romeo & Juliet
Characteristics:
| · Task
Oriented |
·
Introverted |
| · Predictable |
· Scheduled |
| · Enjoys
things that are significant
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Preferences in Romance:
| · Guided
Tours |
· Educational
Outings |
| · Museums |
· Historical
Tours |
| · Long
conversations |
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(Personality Type: Melancholy; Cautious; Beaver)
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(Excerpt reprinted by permission
Harvest House Publishers)
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